What if You Knew You Were Perfect?

One of the blessings of doing hand analysis readings for people is watching the “OMG, now it all makes sense” moments. Those moments when a client realizes her life to date was absolutely ideal for her incubation to be what her purpose calls on.

And those, “So you mean there’s nothing wrong with me; I was supposed to have trouble with this” sighs of relief as she discovers her life lesson set her up to be challenged in this specific way.

What if there is nothing wrong with you, just as you are, and everything you’ve experienced was for your good?
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Who would you be without your story? The late Debbie Ford was the first person who ever asked me that question. When I studied with Debbie back in the ‘90’s I learned that I could step out of a particular story (belief about myself) and take on a different persona, just by acting “as if” I believed something different.

And then I forgot I could do that. For many years, I went back in and out of the old stories of “not good enough, thin enough, too old, not enough money, there’s something wrong with me”, etc. etc. etc.

Periodically, I would get a reprieve and remember who I really was deep inside. And those were glorious times. I would be filled with enthusiasm, learn something new, and share that with others, and get wonderful results.

And then I would slip back into the downward spiral again.

Does that sound familiar to you and your life?

I’ve come to realize it’s part of the human journey, unless we saturate ourselves with inspiration and love.

I believe the time is here for all of us who have felt called to make a real difference in the world to do our very best to not allow the ego to take control of our thoughts and emotions.

And it’s time to stop telling the stories of the past and keep our attention on the life we desire. It’s time to breathe in all the wonderful things we can do and how magnificent we are, first by asking our hearts what they feel; and second by not judging ourselves by the standards of people who don’t have what we want.

If you get really quiet, slow down your breath and sit in silence, your heart will speak to you. It will tell you to keep doing this, I feel good; or stop doing this, it hurts.

You have a purpose, a reason for being here on planet earth at this time. Everything you need to live that purpose is inside of you, including the wisdom of choosing the perfect teachers and experiences so you can share your gift in the world.

Take responsibility for your life.

I mean this in the most loving way, because responsibility is empowering. Just as Debbie Ford taught us to love all aspects of ourselves, being responsible allows you to respond to anything by taking a really clear look at it and find the good in it. The good may be seeing that you need to let something go that is keeping you small, holding you back, or making you feel powerless. Or the good may be to fully embrace your gifts and share them with the people who are open to receiving them.

Let go of everything else but the good, love yourself completely and then share your unique magnificence with others.

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Warmest,
Rosemary

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Does it Feel Like Everything is Topsy Turvy? Stay Calm in the Midst of Chaos

Does it seem that time is racing faster than ever?

Are you feeling overwhelmed with commitments?

Do you say “yes” to something, and then find you have to say “no”?

Are you flooded with very appealing offers, but you can’t add one more program to your schedule?

Whew! Kinda makes you feel crazy, doesn’t it?

Time out! Relax. Stop!

Now ask yourself, where are YOU in the middle of all of this?

If your answer is peaceful and authentic and good with all of the chaos, go ahead and stop reading. Maybe next week’s article is for you.

For everyone else still here, take a very deep breath and let go of any negative internal chatter that there’s something wrong with you.

This is time to get completely calm and centred. Just like being in the eye of the hurricane is the calmest spot, when it feels as though everything calls on you to rush, rush, rush, I say STOP!
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It’s time to look inside and be sure you feel really connected to your most authentic self. If you don’t, you’ll find yourself trying to be and do what other experts tell you is necessary. And, isn’t that exactly what happened growing up when you were told who you were just wasn’t right?

That’s what’s been going on in my life. I took a “Day out of Time” (Almine) a couple of weeks ago and have been deliberately slow ever since. At least as much as I could, given that I can be pretty driven.

I am doing a lot of introspection to be certain I am staying true to my life purpose in my business and life. Am I being as heart-centred as I want to be, or am I falling prey to world views that there’s not enough and I have to get there first, or I will lose out?

Then I go back to what I teach – this is an abundant universe. How could there be scarcity if I don’t get somewhere first?

So, that can’t be true, what’s next?

Someone else is doing a better job than I am? According to whom?

With me, it’s my inner critic who still maintains only perfection is good enough. And again I inquire, “Who is the ultimate authority on perfection?” I’d say that’s God, and I believe God thinks I am perfect no matter what. And so are you.

So, someone else doing it better can’t be true either. And so it goes.

I could go on with lots more examples, but I think you can get a sense of this process.

I invite you to try it on this week.

STOP. DROP inside. And ASK relevant questions. (We had a fire drill where I live this weekend. LOL)

  • Am I connected to my PURPOSE?
  • Am I committed to my TRUTH?
  • Am I living life the way I DESIRE?

I invite you to comment below or on Facebook and I look forward to reading what comes up for you.

Enjoy a calm week.

Warmest,
Rosemary

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Life gives us plenty of opportunities to do things over and do them better.

End Your Money Fears Forever: 5 Powerful Pathways to Replace Financial Frustration with Prosperity and Peace of Mind

Wednesday September 17 at 12:00noon eastern/9:00am pacific

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And there really is nothing wrong with you. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH, but you’re just trying to get to where you want to go without all the directions.

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  • Why working HARDER is not the key to success … and what is instead

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Warmest,
Rosemary

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Get Yourself Off the Hook – How A Daily Love Practice Sets You Free

chain hoist - daily love practiceWhat happens when you do something you’ve never done before and you do not do it as well as you think you should?

Do you shrug it off and do it again? Or do you beat yourself up for being stupid, a klutz, not good enough, etc. etc. etc?

The hook is your inner court of justice. The one with the scathing prosecutor and the judge who is certain you are guilty as charged.

Over the summer I took a program and I’ve been implementing what I learned to create a webinar differently than I had done in the past. I had no idea how long it would take me to complete everything.

And … I ran out of time 15 minutes before it began.

Despite all the panic that arose in those 15 minutes, when it came time to start I stood there and did the best I could in that 90 minutes.

And then, I let it go. I did not put myself down for not knowing ahead of time that it would take so long. I did not allow feelings of embarrassment or shame take me out, although that inner judge sure did try to get me to think I deserved to be embarrassed and ashamed.

And, I didn’t tell myself, “You’re not as good as XYZ; and you’ll never get this business stuff right, so quit.”

That’s what the daily love practice is doing for me.

Now I can screw up and do it over.

Nor, did I let the hanging judge tell me I was wasting time doing those spiritual things, and if I hadn’t wasted the time, everything would have been perfect.

I know beyond any shadow of a doubt the time I take to love myself, meditate, and do my energy exercises, is keeping me connected to my Source, inspired to live my purpose, and unstoppable.

That’s what is possible for anyone who commits to doing the inner work necessary to stay aware of whom you really are. Without FEAR!

You can do it too! I believe in you!

Warmest,
Rosemary

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Love or Fear

no fearWe are here for a reason. A purpose bigger than most of us can imagine.

I believe the essential element of our purpose is to be our most authentic self; to love that self and all others unconditionally; and to have a deep spiritual connection with our Source.

It takes courage to be our most authentic self – especially for those of us marching to the beat of a different drummer than the one in our society’s band.

However, when we love ourselves just as we are, that love empowers us.

In the Course in Miracles we are told that love’s presence is our natural inheritance. That means we came here as love and deserve love all the time. It’s our birthright.

If you grew up being told there was something wrong with you, rather than your behaviour was inappropriate; and punished for your mistakes, you may be afraid to do what’s in your heart.

Perhaps you are afraid you will be rejected, or ridiculed, or you will fail, or be hurt.

Most of what you fear is an imagined outcome based on the past and is not a true threat to your life.

Don’t let fear stop you.

Love yourself enough to let go of the fear and make your unique contribution to the world.

Fulfill your destiny.

The Course in Miracles also says:

“The opposite of love is fear, but what is all-encompassing can have no opposite.” This course can therefore be summed up very simply in this way:

Nothing real can be threatened.
Nothing unreal exists.

Herein lies the peace of God.”

Love is the answer. Love is real

There is a short clip of what is called Jim Carrey’s Secret to Life going around on Facebook. The message so inspired me I took time to find the origin. It is called Full Speech: Jim Carrey’s Commencement Address at the 2014 MUM Graduation.

It is well worth the time to watch. One point Jim made was he learned by watching what happened to his father when his father lost his job. “You can fail at what you don’t want, so you might as well take a chance on what you love.”

And to help you on your authentic expression in business, I created

End Your Money Fears Forever:
5 Powerful Pathways to Replace Financial Frustration
with Prosperity and Peace of Mind.

Thursday, September 4 7:00 pm eastern/4:00 pacific

Sign up now and discover why your fears do not have to hold you hostage any longer. And powerful pathways to follow that lead to the success you desire:

  • Transform your fears and insecurities into the confident truth about your magnificence and power
  • Implement the strategies revealed – the success “secrets” of all powerful business owners
  • Learn about that one small change you can make to attract customers like crazy
  • Discover why working HARDER is not the answer – You don’t need to know HOW to get the results you desire, you need FAITH you ARE going to get them

On the webinar you will learn you already have everything you need for the success you desire, you just need the correct map to find it.

Join us for this powerful webinar

Plus … discover the most significant key to end your struggles and unlock the door to the freedom and fulfillment.

Get out of FEAR and FRUSTRATION
Get into FREEDOM

This is the groundbreaking webinar to help you bid those financial FEARS goodbye and welcome in PEACE and PROSPERITY.

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Warmest,
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